Christian Life Coaching for Women with Terry Deason | Healthy Relationships, Personal Awareness, Biblical Encouragement, Betrayal, Trusting God

Wednesday of Passion Week has two notable events.  One is the anointing of Jesus ( Mark 14:1-9) and the second is Judas agreeing to betray Jesus (Luke 22:1-6).  This is a short episode, but should give you a lot to think about!
Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday.  Hope you have a blessed Easter!
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Tuesday's Passion Week Reading is from Matthew 22-23:12.  Jesus continues to teach and to respond to queries from the Sadducees and Pharisees who are trying to trap him with words.....spoiler alert....it doesn't work!!!
Terry also shares a bit about the "Woes" or charges Jesus brings against the Pharisees.  He calls them hypocrites and blind guides.  Chapters 24 and 25 are Jesus' overview of what his second coming will be like.  I hope you'll find time to read these chapters before the week is out.  
I will be posting scripture each day this week that align to what happened the final week of Jesus' life here on earth.  Regular podcast releases will resume next Tuesday.
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This week Terry will read scripture each day and have a brief discussion of what happened that day in the final week of Jesus' life on earth.  
We begin today with a reading from Matthew 21:18-46.  Jesus gets in the faces and in the heads of the chief priests and Pharisees with some parables that call them out.  We'll pick up here tomorrow!
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Terry shares a story about a damaged tree crashing in her yard to teach spiritual preventive measures for believers.  When our roots are damaged or not fed, we may eventually be unable to stand under the weight of stress or the storms that come our way. 
This episode aired on March 17…..St. Patrick’s Day.  Terry also shared a bit about St. Patrick, who he was and what we know about his life.  The words he wrote on his breastplate are included at the end of the show notes to further encourage you in your walk. 
Scripture References:
I Peter 5:8 Be alert and of sober mind. Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.
Matthew 6:13 And lead us not into temptation,  but deliver us from the evil one
Ephesians 6:11-12 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes.12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.
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St Patrick’s Breastplate
Written centuries ago by St. Patrick, this is a profound and simple prayer for protection. We find ourselves returning to again and again:
I arise today Through a mighty strength, the invocation of the Trinity. Through belief in the threeness, Through confession of the oneness, Of the Creator of Creation.
I arise today Through the strength of Christ's birth with His baptism, Through the strength of His crucifixion with His burial, Through the strength of His resurrection with His ascension, Through the strength of His descent for the judgment of doom.
I arise today Through the strength of the love of cherubim, In the obedience of angels, In the service of archangels, In the hope of resurrection to meet with reward, In the prayers of patriarchs, In the predictions of prophets, In the preaching of apostles, In the faith of confessors, In the innocence of holy virgins, In the deeds of righteous men.
I arise today, through The strength of heaven, The light of the sun, The radiance of the moon, The splendor of fire, The speed of lightning, The swiftness of wind, The depth of the sea, The stability of the earth, The firmness of rock.
I arise today, through God's strength to pilot me, God's might to uphold me, God's wisdom to guide me, God's eye to look before me, God's ear to hear me, God's word to speak for me, God's hand to guard me, God's shield to protect me, God's host to save me From snares of devils, From temptation of vices, From everyone who shall wish me ill, afar and near.
I summon today All these powers between me and those evils, Against every cruel and merciless power that may oppose my body and soul, Against incantations of false prophets, Against black laws of pagandom, Against false laws of heretics, Against craft of idolatry, Against spells of witches and smiths and wizards, Against every knowledge that corrupts man's body and soul; Christ to shield me today Against poison, against burning, Against drowning, against wounding, So that there may come to me an abundance of reward.
Christ with me, Christ before me, Christ behind me, Christ in me, Christ beneath me, Christ above me, Christ on my right, Christ on my left, Christ when I lie down, Christ when I sit down, Christ when I arise, Christ in the heart of every man who thinks of me, Christ in the mouth of everyone who speaks of me, Christ in every eye that sees me, Christ in every ear that hears me. 
 

In this episode, Terry explores the powerful—and often hidden—beliefs we form about ourselves through life experiences. These “agreements” shape our decisions, relationships, and sense of safety. Using Scripture, neuroscience, and personal reflection, Terry invites listeners to examine whether their beliefs align with God’s truth—or if they’ve been living under a lie.
You’ll Learn:
What “agreements” are and how they form
Why beliefs often begin in early adolescence
How old agreements become automatic responses
Why some beliefs feel true—but aren’t biblical
A step-by-step process for breaking unhealthy agreements
How Scripture helps renew your mind and restore freedom
Key Scriptures:
Psalm 139:14 I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.
Proverbs 15:22 Plans fail for lack of counsel, but with many advisers they succeed.
Matthew 7:7 “Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you.
Romans 12:2 Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.
Reflection Questions:
What do I believe about myself?
Where did that belief come from?
Does it align with Scripture?
What truth does God want me to agree with instead?
Key Takeaway:You cannot live in freedom if you are agreeing with a lie—but you can begin again today.
Listener Invitation:Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you.
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In this episode, Terry unpacks what boundaries really are—and what they aren’t. Using Scripture, personal reflection, and practical examples, she walks listeners through how to identify unsafe situations, understand their needs, and set healthy, Christ-centered boundaries without guilt or fear.
You’ll Learn:
A clear, definition of boundaries
Why boundaries are your responsibility
How the Pool of Bethesda story applies to healing and self-awareness
What physical, emotional, and spiritual safety feel like
A step-by-step framework for setting a healthy boundary
Why resistance is normal when you begin to change
Key Scripture:John 5:1–9 — Healing at the Pool of Bethesda
Key Takeaway:Boundaries are not walls—they are pathways to safety, healing, and freedom
Listener Invitation:Share what God is asking you to do. Leave a comment or message so Terry can walk with you and pray with you.
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Do you find yourself shutting down, running away, or reacting the same way every time you feel emotionally unsafe? In this episode, Terry explores how our brains learn safety, why old coping mechanisms can keep us stuck, and how faith, awareness, and intentional choices can help us create new pathways going forward.
You’ll learn:
Why your body reacts before your mind catches up
How emotional responses are formed—and why they repeat
Why what once kept you safe may no longer serve you
Practical steps to pause, reflect, and choose a new response
How Scripture and the mind of Christ can guide your decisions
A gentle introduction to boundaries (with more coming next week)
Key Takeaway:You did the best you could with what you knew—but today, you have new options.
Reflection Questions:
Where in my life do I consistently feel unsafe or unsettled?
How do I usually respond in that situation?
What might a new, healthier response look like?
How would Christ respond here?
Coming Next Week:A deeper conversation about boundaries—what they are, what they aren’t, and how they help you stay safe without building walls.
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In today's episode, Terry shares a parable from Mark about a seed planted by man growing in the soil.  The man has no control over the seed, but it grows in the dark.  God is in control of what is produced.  Not us!  
We're getting back to basics by focusing on being still and listening to God.  
Scripture Focus:
Mark 4:28. Parable of Growing Seed
Psalm 46:10 "Be Still and Know that I am God"
John 10:27. "My sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me."
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In today's episode Terry unpacks how we can follow the example set by the prophet Daniel as we are intentional in our prayers.  She shares how her personal obedience to what God told her in a 2:17 am wake up call resulted in today's podcast.
How Daniel Prayed:
Praise, acknowledge God
Repent for self and others
Ask, petition God
Yield, listen and obey--Be quiet to receive insight and understanding
Scripture References:
Proverbs 3:5-6  Trust in the LORD with all your heart, lean not on your own understanding.  In all your ways acknowledge him and he will direct your paths.
Daniel 9:1-23
I Corinthians 6:19  Do you now know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?
I Chronicles 23:30  They are to stand every morning to thank and praise the LORD
 
Resources mentioned in today's podcast:
One Minute Pause App:  https://wildatheart.org/pause
Lectio App: https://lectio365.com 
You Version Bible App:https://www.youversion.com/bible-app
Bible Gateway Website: https://bibleproject.com
 
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Episode Description:Jesus’ words, “Do not throw your pearls to the swine,” can feel confusing—until we understand what He was really saying. In this episode, Terry shares a deeply personal story about loss, hidden treasure, and the surprising value of what we carry every day. Together, we explore how faith, like a pearl, is formed through discomfort—and why we must take that pain to God.  That pain might be Treasure!  
Key Topics Covered:
The cultural meaning behind “pearls” and “swine”
Why Jesus used this powerful metaphor
A personal story of loss and unexpected treasure
Recognizing the value of your pain
Wearing your faith daily—not hiding it
Understanding who you can trust
Key Scripture:Matthew 7:6 – “Do not give dogs what is sacred; do not throw your pearls to pigs…”
Reflection Questions:
What do you treasure most right now?
Do you recognize the value of your relationship with God?
Are you taking your pain to God daily? 
Are you wearing your faith daily—or hiding it away?
Who are you trusting with your spiritual treasure?
Closing Thoughts:Your faith is precious. Handle it with care. Wear it daily.
Trust God to turn what once hurt into eternal TREASURE.
 
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